Friends, you have to watch this video to believe it – click on the embedded YouTube video below. Newark Mayor Cory Booker, one of America’s most inspiring leaders, just gave a speech on the fly at a news conference – none of it from notes – in favor of marriage equality, and specifically on the dangers of a referendum on marriage equality as suggested by the Governor. Mayor Booker’s remarks are magnificent beyond words. Cory, we thank you and we love you. Immediately after you watch this, please share it with everyone you know. See the text of the Mayor’s remarks after this YouTube video box. I jumped out of my skin when I watched and simply had to transcribe the text for you myself.
In one of the most stirring civil rights speeches in years, Mayor Cory Booker speaks out against holding a referendum in New Jersey on marriage equality
Posted by Steven Goldstein on January 26, 2012
http://www.gardenstateequality.org/1788
Personal reflections on two eventful days
Yesterday, the Senate Judiciary Committee approved the marriage equality bill 8 to 4. That’s a notable difference from the narrow 7 to 6 victory in the Senate Judiciary Committee we had in December 2009. Then as yesterday, voting for us on the Committee were the bill’s prime sponsors, Senators Loretta Weinberg and Raymond Lesniak, our beloved champions.
Yesterday’s vote also included a dramatic change of heart by Senator Paul Sarlo, who in 2009 spoke and voted in the Committee against marriage equality. In voting for the bill yesterday, Senator Sarlo delivered eloquent remarks on the proven failure of New Jersey’s civil union law and the constitutional right of same-sex couples to equality.
Senate President Steve Sweeney continues to be a Godsend. I swear to you, he isn’t engaged in some superficial stunt to make up for not voting the correct way previously. For more than a year, he has worked tirelessly behind the scenes, with intense, nearly indescribable dedication, to winning marriage equality. He has been doing as much to win equality in New Jersey as Governor Andrew Cuomo did to win marriage equality in New York last year.
Yesterday, Senator Sweeney was heroic. He led the testimony for marriage equality. He sat through the entire three-and-a-half hour hearing, from beginning to end, to send the strongest possible signal of his support. You wouldn’t get that from a Senate President in many states. And picture this: Yesterday, in the midst of the hearing, word came that Governor Christie had just called for a referendum on our civil rights. One Senator on the Committee read the news aloud on his smart phone, and then told the crowd he would talk to Senator Sweeney after the hearing about a referendum.
Senator Sweeney interrupted the proceedings right in their tracks and said: You have your answer now. It’s not going to happen. We don’t vote on people’s civil rights.
There was thunderous applause.
Senator Sweeney and the entire legislative leadership, including Assembly Speaker Sheila Oliver, are steadfast in their view. And that makes all the difference. In New Jersey, the legislature has to approve a referendum first.
By the way, the last time New Jersey had a referendum on civil rights, it was on whether to grant women the right to vote. That was in 1915 – and a majority of New Jerseyans voted no.
Now a word about the Governor. Yesterday, the Governor reiterated his years-long promise to veto the bill. Over the past couple of weeks, I’ve read lots of tea-leaf reading, frankly baseless, that maybe the Governor would change his mind or just let the bill become law without his signature.
I know this Governor. When he says, as he had in years and months past, that he would veto a marriage equality bill, believe him. We always have. We’ve said so all along in the press.
Our entire plan this go-round has included the assumption of a veto. We have a methodical plan: First pass the bill. Then endure the veto. Then work on an override vote.
Two things we can’t forget therein: First, we have got to pass the bill. Let’s not get ahead of ourselves – we’re working for 21 votes in the Senate and 41 votes in the Assembly. We’re optimistic, but we cannot be complacent. The talk of an override, frankly, is meshuga when we must focus on passing the bill first. Stay focused.
Secondly, we will have all the time we need to methodically achieve an override. After a veto, there is no time limit in New Jersey on how long the legislature has to override a veto, other than the end of the legislative session. The current legislative session, which began only this month, will end in January 2014. Look how the world has changed – and how you helped to change it – since the last vote. Our support in the legislature has increased dramatically. Stunningly. We’ll get that override with time and careful work. But right now, friends, it’s about passing the bill and getting it to the Governor’s desk.
And let’s not forget that Garden State Equality pursues all roads to justice. Represented by our friends at Lambda Legal and the fantastic Gibbons law firm, we also have a lawsuit making its way through the courts.
I’d like to add a word about the Governor’s announcement on Monday that he is nominating the first openly gay person in history to the New Jersey Supreme Court. You saw I issued a glowing statement, quite complimentary of the Governor. We got lots of emails in response from you, our members. They were overwhelmingly supportive of our philosophy that you give credit where credit is due, even in all-too cynical world of politics. A handful of you emailed to say, why say anything nice about this Governor – you can’t trust him.
In light of the Governor’s statement yesterday on a veto and referendum, do I take back my remarks on Monday? I do not. We can walk and chew gum at the same time. We can be fierce but decent. The Governor did a fantastic thing on Monday with his judicial appointments. He made history. He deserved much credit and we gave it to him.
That doesn’t mean one iota that we’d be blind to the reality that he would continue to oppose marriage equality and veto the bill. Heck, we said it Monday in the very statement we issued praising the Governor for his judicial appointments. “It would be unwise to read any change here in the Governor’s position on marriage equality; he has said in past months and years that he would veto the bill, and we take him at his word. We will fight hard every minute of every day to win marriage equality in New Jersey. Nothing will deter us.”
And friends, nothing indeed will deter us. For now, it’s one step at a time. Let’s pass that bill.
B’Shalom, Steven
Posted by Steven Goldstein on January 25, 2012
http://www.gardenstateequality.org/personal-reflections-on-two-eventful-days
Governor Christie has nominated an openly gay person to the New Jersey Supreme Court – and called us minutes before the announcement to tell us
Hi, everyone. A few minutes ago, just before announcing his two new Supreme Court nominees, Governor Christie called me on my cell phone to tell me he is nominating Bruce Harris to the New Jersey Supreme Court. Bruce will become the first openly LGBT person in history, and the third African-American person in history, to serve on the New Jersey Supreme Court. Most importantly, Bruce is eminently qualified to be a Supreme Court justice.
As I told the Governor right then and there, you could have picked me up off the floor.
When I met with Governor Christie in 2010 at his request, he told me that though we would differ on some issues like marriage equality, he viewed the LGBT community as an important part of New Jersey, and that he wanted his Administration to have a good working relationship with Garden State Equality. That has been the case every step of the way. Since Governor Christie took office, his Administration has treated us with warmth and responsiveness. Yes is yes, no is no, and we’ll get back to you means they get back to you faster than you thought, usually with invaluable help. To be clear, the Governor and his staff were invaluable in helping us pass the Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights, the nation’s strongest anti-bullying law that the governor signed in January 2011.
No one’s asked me to say any of this – I am simply giving credit where credit is due, too rare in political life.
Now, as for the marriage equality bill: The Governor and I didn’t discuss that in our phone conversation. I recognize, and caution everyone, that it would be unwise to read any change here in the Governor’s position on marriage equality; he has said in past months and years that he would veto the bill, and we take him at his word. We will fight hard every minute of every day to win marriage equality in New Jersey. Nothing will deter us.
But again, right now, that doesn’t mean we should not give credit where credit is due. Today, the Governor has made civil rights history, and on behalf of all of us at Garden State Equality, I extend to him our most profound appreciation.
Posted by Steven Goldstein on January 23, 2012
http://www.gardenstateequality.org/governor-christie-nominates-an-openly-gay-person-to-the-new-jersey-supreme-court-and-called-us-minutes-before-the-announcement-to-tell-us
This Tuesday, January 24 at 11:00 am in Trenton, committee hearing and committee vote on the marriage equality bill
Few events in advocacy are as important or exciting: This Tuesday, January 24 at 11:00 am in Committee Room 4 at the State House, 125 West State Street in Trenton, the New Jersey Senate Judiciary Committee will hold a hearing on S.1, the Marriage Equality and Religious Exemption Act. The Committee will vote on the bill at the end of hearing. Please join us to watch history.
Meet us as early as possible – we suggest 9:00 am or earlier – on Tuesday morning at the State House. The hearing room will be jammed, so arriving early is a must to get seats. We will be there at the crack of dawn. You can park at the Trenton Marriott, 1 West Lafayette Street, only three blocks from the State House, and then walk to the State House. Please wear your EQUALITY The American Dream t-shirt from two years ago if you have one.
WE ARE COMPILING WITNESSES TO TESTIFY FOR MARRIAGE EQUALITY. We are specifically seeking:
Civil union couples who have faced difficulties with the civil union law.
Civil union couples who want to talk about what the deprivation of marriage equality means to them.
Clergy.
LGBT Youth.
Parents or other loved ones of LGBT youth.
Supporters of marriage equality, straight or LGBT.
If you’d like to testify, please email us at Testify@GardenStateEquality.org and put TESTIFY in the subject header. Please include in the email your name, town and the easiest phone number at which to reach you, which we will not give to anyone. Please also include which category above applies to you, or any other category or anything else relevant.
Whether or not you want to testify, we beg you to join us. We need a massive crowd.
All of us on Garden State Equality’s Board thank you, the world’s greatest members, for never giving up. Game on again!
Posted by Steven Goldstein on January 19, 2012
http://www.gardenstateequality.org/this-tuesday-january-24-at-1100-am-in-trenton-committee-hearing-and-vote-on-the-marriage-equality-bill
Dr. Martin Luther King and marriage equality
Today we celebrate the birthday and life of Dr. Martin Luther King, whom I met in 1958 at our alma mater, the Boston University School of Theology. I am 78 and he would be turning 83. I marched with Dr. King in Boston and in the Selma to Montgomery March. And I believe if he were alive, his deep reverence for equality would make him a champion of marriage equality today.
Indeed, Dr. King’s words in his 1963 Letter from Birmingham Jail – “injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere” – have served to guide my commitment as a straight ally and advocate of equality for LGBT people. I continue to be astonished that some who believe they are committed to equality have a blind spot when it comes to same-sex couples who want the same freedom to marry that my wife and I have had in our 54 years of marriage.
The celebration of Dr. King gives us another opportunity to remember how racial insensitivity, often expressed in prejudice and bigotry, once was accepted as having legitimacy. Today, many persons find it incomprehensible that some states once had laws against interracial marriage. “God did not intend for people of different races to marry,” some had claimed. Such marriages, allegedly, were going to harm the ‘institution’ of marriage’.”
Sound familiar?
Neither interracial marriage then, nor marriage equality today, have anything to do with protecting marriage as an institution. The challenges my wife and I have had over 54 years have nothing to do with persons in a committed relationship with someone of the same sex who want to marry.
Dr. King once said, “The Church is neither the master nor the servant of the state. It is its conscience.” I am proud that clergy from 19 faiths, denominations and movements in New Jersey support marriage equality. I contend that even those religious bodies that do not recognize marriages of same-sex couples, like my United Methodist Church, should be supportive of civil marriage equality. There is a contradiction in religious institutions adamant about the state not intruding upon their beliefs and practices, who then have no qualms about intruding on the right to civil marriage and Constitutionally determined equality, justice and fairness.
As a civil rights foot soldier, I have been arrested four times for civil disobedience, and today I serve on Garden State Equality’s Board. It is inconceivable that I could be silent about the discrimination same-sex couples face. Dr. King and his foot soldiers reminded the nation that segregation was at variance with a nation built on the promise of equality. That promise is for all, and in 2012, it includes marriage equality.
Posted by Rev. Gilbert Caldwell on January 16, 2012
http://www.gardenstateequality.org/dr-martin-luther-king-and-marriage-equality








